What is a gift that never stops giving?
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The answer is time—a gift that continues to strengthen a child’s self-esteem and sense of significance long after it is given.
Holidays and birthdays refocus our attention on family and evoke warm emotions. As parents, we devote time to choosing gifts we believe our children will cherish. We plan when to shop, where to find the best deals, and how to navigate crowded parking lots. We decorate our homes, wrap presents, and embrace the spirit of the season or occasion—whatever our beliefs or traditions may be.
Yet sometimes, unexpected challenges like illness can disrupt even the most carefully made plans. In these moments, we must adapt and manage our own disappointment as well as our children’s, all while tending to a loved one’s needs. Despite life’s unpredictability, there is one way to sustain generosity and warmth: by giving of ourselves. This kind of gift costs nothing and requires no trip to the store.
When we recognize our children’s efforts and strengths, we reinforce our love and support. When we encourage them through setbacks and reassure them of our presence, we show that they are valued for who they are—not just what they achieve. This builds not only their self-worth but also their intrinsic desire to grow and please both you and themselves.
Remember: the gift of time never diminishes. It builds self-esteem and affirms a child’s importance. You don’t need a special occasion to offer it. Intentionally making time for your child tells them they are a priority—and that contributes to their healthy development for years to come.
Suggestions for sharing time together:
Cook a meal together, take a walk, or walk the family pet—use these moments to talk and listen.
Host a family talent show: tell jokes, sing, dance, hula hoop, or perform magic tricks.
Have a movie night followed by a discussion.
Watch a TV show together weekly.
Schedule a weekly game night to foster fun, strategy, and good sportsmanship.
Visit a library, museum, mall, or sporting event. Check your local library for free museum passes and online for discounts.
Attend an event that matters to your child.
Establish a daily or weekly routine like sharing “thumbs up & thumbs down” or the best/worst moment of the day at dinner.
Have a dance party—movement can be energizing, relaxing, and fun.
Go out for ice cream or your child’s favorite treat.
Work together on a project to help others—donate toys, games, gently used clothes, or canned food. Giving back is empowering and meaningful.